WHY AM I PAYING FOR YOUR CHOICE?

Look, I understand that some people may need a little help making Ends Meet in todays world. 

Add a child or two to the mix, and it gets even harder.

 I got that.

Here's what I don't get:

If you can't afford to have a child, and you know you can't afford to have a Child, and you have one anyway, I don't think I should have to pay for your choice.

Listen, I'd LOVE to have my 74 350 SS Nova back again. But guess what? I couldn't afford to keep it up and running. 

So it had to go. 

But wait! how about I just go out and buy another one? 

Is anyone going to send me a check once a month to help me pay for a choice I knew I couldn't afford to make, but went ahead and did it any way because I wanted to?

No they are not. 

And why not I ask? 

And the answer is always the same. 

"It was "your" Choice to make the decision to buy and/or take on something you knew you couldn't afford, so now it's on you to pay for it."

Y'all see where I'm going with this?